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However, as an affirmative point of view, there are not many such things after all, and it can be said that they are some special cases of bad habits, which are not justified! "

it is good!

After the old man finished speaking, the audience applauded him again. The difference was that many people in the audience behind Chang Sun Chong also applauded.

Li Er nodded and said: "That's right, I will find someone to discuss this matter, they are all daughters of Datang, how can they be harmed by bad habits?"

The positive side won the support of the audience, and the negative side naturally wanted to accept the move. Du Gou stood up and said to the loudspeaker: "My lord's words are justified, and Wansheng admires them.

Regarding the words of the matchmaker ordered by the parents, I have another comment. The adult said before that parents will not harm their children when they choose a spouse for their children. This is not bad.

But in many cases, the parents' views do not represent the children's views. If the parents like it, it does not mean that the child likes it. After that, the two children live together. If they are not satisfied and can't get together, it must be a tragedy in the backyard, or Divorce and remarry.

The man is fine, but will the woman be looked down upon if she remarries?

And in this way, wouldn't the previous two months of busy work on the marriage be wasted?

A rich family is okay, it can stand the toss, the poorer the family, the less it can stand the toss, and the poorer it will be if it comes twice.

Therefore, even though it is an ancient ritual, we have to solve the major issues related to the happiness and progress of the people! "

it is good!

Behind Du Gou, the cheerleaders yelled.

Although the other side didn't agree, they didn't ridicule either. Many parents fell into deep thought after hearing this, as if there was some truth to it.

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Chapter 360 Intense Showdown Provoking Thought-Provoking

"We have said before that the reason why we don't give children the right to choose is because young people don't have enough vision and only choose wives based on their looks. This will not be conducive to the prosperity of the family in the future." Wei Zheng said, standing up.

"No! Master Wei underestimates the younger generation too much. I admit that everyone's mate selection must be the most beautiful, but is there anything wrong with that?

The new blind date rules are mutual, men choose women, women also choose men, everyone has the right to pursue beauty, it's just that the more handsome the person, the greater the chance of success.

Appearance is only one aspect of mate selection, why do elders insist on this?

As everyone knows that old saying, blocking is worse than sparse?

If the children in the family marry a beautiful wife, the benefits are obvious. Since there is a beautiful wife in the family, it is natural to look down on the flowers and plants outside, so that there will be fewer conflicts in the family after marriage. Isn't this a good thing?

As for the idea of ​​marrying a wife and a virtuous person that everyone respects, virtue and talent come first. In this day and age, there are girls from decent families. Beauty and wisdom can be found everywhere. Could it be that these excellent girls are not wanted by anyone? "Du Gou vehemently refuted Wei Zheng.

Wei Zheng shook his head and smiled, "Do you think such an outstanding woman is Chinese cabbage? She is one of a kind. If everyone is so outstanding, I am willing to marry such a wife for my son."

In the auditorium, Wei Zheng's family members were also there. Mrs. Wei turned her head and joked to her young son, "Did you see that? Your father is considering marrying you a wife right now!"

The audience below were also amused by Wei Zheng's words.

Du Gou didn't give in at all: "Master Wei, please pay attention to your words, my sons and daughters in the Tang Dynasty are all excellent, I don't know what you mean by saying that they are both talented and beautiful?

Does it just refer to playing piano, chess, calligraphy and painting?Will female red?Are there distinctions in these techniques?

If this is the case, ninety-nine percent of the girls in the country can't pass the test. The daughters of poor families have worked hard since childhood. They may not know how to play piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, or female red makeup, but they have learned to farm and weave since childhood. They are all good housekeepers.

They may have dark and rough skin, but they are all simple and kind. In my eyes, even if they are not beautiful, they are good girls with the most beautiful hearts.

In the eyes of adults, they are girls without talent and virtue. Do they deserve to be unable to marry? "

good!High theory!

Master Wei is unreasonable!

There were constant shouts of support for Du Gou in the audience, and many girls were moved to tears by Du Gou's words, and suddenly became Du Gou's diehard fans, and many bold ones even shouted to marry Du Gou.

Du Gou was also bold, waved to the girls in the audience, and explained embarrassingly: "I already have a loved one, so I can only live up to your kindness. Master has taught that a man can be passionate but not promiscuous. You can't see a married man. One, otherwise my teacher Bai Fan is known as the Great Tang Love Sage, I am afraid that he alone can marry all the girls in the world."

Hahahaha, the audience burst into laughter instantly.

Bai Fan's face darkened, how dare this guy make fun of himself?Do you want to find time to practice solo with him?

Wei Zheng's face was originally dark, but at this moment it turned from black to red, and then to purple again, he snorted coldly and said: "I have heard that Zhongnan Academy's sharp mouth can kill the living with a sharp mouth, and seeing it today is a well-deserved reputation.

One sentence pushed the old man to the opposite side of the daughters of the world. I am so jealous that I dare not go out in the future. I don’t criticize my politics today. I am the second rank of the imperial court. I am in charge of Yushitai. Any old man with a daughter can regard her as his own, how can you allow you to slander her out of thin air? "

The audience applauded loudly, and they all agreed with Wei Zheng. Wei Zheng is known as the most honest and honest celebrity in the world, and the common people still like it.

Du Gou also hurriedly saluted and apologized, and it was indeed over.

An old official got up and said, "I've been talking for a long time, and I just said that I want to give the right to choose a spouse to young people, but I can't get over this theory of uncertainty. It's better to leave it to my parents. It's not uncommon to raise eyebrows and respect each other like a guest, they are all wives chosen by parents."

Li Chengdao got up and said: "My lord's words are different. There are too many good stories about choosing a wife in ancient times. The story of Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty and Empress Wei, the story of Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun, Sun Quan Zhou Yu of the Three Kingdoms married Jiangdong Er Qiao, these stories are common to everyone. I know, it's just that no one thought of following suit.

On the other hand, the fate of parents, a couple of tragedies make people heartbroken. Cai Wenji, a talented woman in the Eastern Han Dynasty, was married to the Hedong Wei family by her father. Her husband died early a year later. Cai Wenji had no one to rely on and was taken captive to the Huns. Remembering the miserable life and making Hu Jia's touching eighteen shots, this is the proof.

In fact, Cai Wenji liked Emperor Wu of Wei Cao Cao when she was young. This can be seen after she was rescued by Cao Cao and married him. If she married Cao Cao back then, wouldn't there be a tragedy and a good story? "

Li Chengdao quoted extensively, and everyone in the audience nodded repeatedly, and many women shed tears of sympathy when they thought of Cai Wenji's story.

"This matter is indeed true, but it is only a special case and cannot be relied upon." The man insisted.

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Li Chengdao couldn't help but get angry, and was held back by the people around him.

Seeing this, Chang Sun Chong stood up and said mockingly, "I never thought that you, mature and prudent adults, would mess around. So what's the point of this debate?"

When Du Gou saw the two sides, he was about to say something stiff, so he stood up and said, "My lords are all experienced people. I believe in your fairness. You are afraid that your children will be impulsive and careless in choosing a spouse. This is understandable, but I want to say The thing is, is the one you choose foolproof? You look down on your children too much. Young people have their own criteria for judging. My teacher once said that the right one is the best. I give this to everyone present. people."

After Du Gou finished speaking, the audience burst into applause. This is the voice of young people. Both men and women want to choose for themselves, and no one wants to be influenced by others, even their closest parents.

Chang Sun Chong went on to say: "Marriage also depends on God's will, and no one can guarantee that there will be no mistakes.

Furthermore, have you considered the feelings of your children?They like fat and thin?Tall or short?Talkative or quiet?Have you ever asked?

Don't say what matchmakers say, folk matchmakers are mostly people who are greedy for money. In order to make money, they can boast of both parties to the sky, but what if the marriage of their children is not what they want?

Do you listen to your parents, keep silent all your life, and live in unhappiness?Or is it noisy?Ruined two families?Is it really appropriate for you to place such a heavy burden on your children? "

Well, Changsun Chong is really ruthless to drive that ancient ritual into the abyss with one sentence.

Many parents have fallen into deep thought and have to think carefully. They have been working for many years and have never seen or heard of any situation. There are too many family discords, but no one has ever thought about the reason. Today, someone woke up, not everyone What you are doing is right.

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